We are not here to live our best life but to die our best death, to deny ourselves in self-giving, other-centered, cross-shaped love. So shall we find our life. For this is the life of Christ, and our life is in him. Lord Jesus said,
Whoever wants to be my disciple must deny themselves and take up their cross and follow me. For whoever wants to save their life will lose it, but whoever loses their life for me and for the gospel will save it. What good is it for someone to gain the whole world, yet forfeit their soul? Or what can anyone give in exchange for their soul? (Mark 8:34-37)
For even the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many. (Mark 8:45)
And St. Paul answered,
I have been crucified with Christ, and it is no longer I who live, but Christ lives in me. So the life I now live in the body, I live because of the faithfulness of the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me. (Galatians 2:20 NET)
This is for all of us, the way of life for everyday saints and everyday living. It is the way of True Being, for it is the Way of Christ, in whom we have our being.
It is the way of marriage and family and home. For though it may seem funny, it is nevertheless true that marriage is a martyrdom: we lay down our lives for the other. Parenthood, also, is a martyrdom: we lay down our lives for our children.
Dying our best death is the only way of truly living our best life — dying and living with Christ for the sake of others. And so we discover the love of God, the life of Christ, and the fellowship of the Holy Spirit at work within.
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